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Post by Bick on Aug 17, 2019 17:42:27 GMT -8
Didn't really follow those guys until I was nearly 50. There's something very cool about how those guys, Sinatra in particular, that really resonates with me now.
I hear a Sinatra song, and I go right to thinking about a whiskey and a cigar sitting in an oversized chair at a dimly lit lounge in Vegas.
I also think about how things must've been when he was going strong. Guys were guys, gals dressed up. It was classy.
I think that's what I miss most about the way things are today. Very few people have any class. Clearly, as our president demonstrates on a daily basis, it's not about money. It's just a way of being that I really enjoyed.
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Post by slk230 on Aug 18, 2019 4:20:18 GMT -8
I agree with you Bick and will take it a step further.
We (our society) no longer has any common decency or respect for much of anything.
Abortion proves a complete lack of respect for life. Today's "motto" is "If it feels good do it".
I mostly blame the politicians as they were the ones led and encouraged the decline.
I am glad I am old as what I see on a daily basis makes me very sad. I feel bad for my grandchildren and great children as they do not know what was, only what is.....
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Post by MDDad on Aug 18, 2019 8:05:25 GMT -8
I couldn't agree more, SLK. When I look ahead to what my first grandchild will face (still brewing until February), I alternately get angry, frustrated or defeated, but the overriding feeling is always one of sadness at what he won't be allowed to experience because of liberal ideology and political correctness. In a world where you have to parse every word you say for fear of offending someone, much of the joy and exhilaration of the lives we experienced have been sucked out of it. More's the pity.
And it's also cool how the rat pack was able to cram all their minority representation into one guy: Sammy Davis Jr. was the black guy, the short guy, the half-blind guy and the Jewish guy all wrapped up in one cool little package. Too bad he wasn't trans as well.
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Post by Bick on Aug 18, 2019 9:32:54 GMT -8
Politicians and the media reflect who we are. We elect and consume both, and they adapt to OUR tastes, or they wouldn't exist...assuming you believe in the notion of demand and supply.
I want to think this movement away from being classy began to change back in the 60's with the hippie movement. There was something very appealing about that "mind expanding" era, and all that came with it. Some of it was very necessary - namely civil rights. Some of it was very damaging that appealed to our id - namely the loosening of our mores regarding sex.
The Rat Pack had influences throughout for a very long time. It seemed there were piano lounges pretty much everywhere. I remember nearly every bowling alley having that type of bar. Going out to dinner meant you dressed up, opened the door for ladies, etc. There's something very appealing about class and romance that I think guys our age can impart on those we can influence.
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Post by MDDad on Aug 18, 2019 10:17:39 GMT -8
"Politicians and the media reflect who we are. We elect and consume both, and they adapt to OUR tastes, or they wouldn't exist...assuming you believe in the notion of demand and supply."
I don't mind it if they reflect who we are. But I bristle when they try to influence and shape who we are -- especially the media. First, they don't have the right, and second most of them are airheads. I can do better by myself, thank you.
"Going out to dinner meant you dressed up, opened the door for ladies, etc. There's something very appealing about class and romance that I think guys our age can impart on those we can influence."
I do it without even thinking about it, but I still open the door for my ex when we go to some event together, and we've been apart for 28 years. I guess true class is something you don't even think about, and I flatter myself thinking I may have an ounce or two somewhere in my jerkness.
Yes, we try to influence those we can in a positive manner, knowing there is a tidal wave of influence trying to move them in the opposite direction.
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Post by RSM789 on Aug 18, 2019 10:32:25 GMT -8
...I mostly blame the politicians as they were the ones led and encouraged the decline. . I would suggest the media would be more at fault than the politicians. Andrew Brietbart once said "politics is downstream from culture" and I agree with that statement. The media are the ones who glamorized the counter culture of the 1960's, influencing millions of baby boomers into thinking that was the way to live. Had the media been less biased in its reporting, there may not have been the culture shift that there was. Politicians, with rare exceptions such as Reagan, are typically followers, bandwagon jumpers who will say what is popular now in order to get elected. I was fortunate to join the grandfather brigade 3 months ago and while I have lost hope for Orange County & California as a whole, I still see a positive future for our country. i believe the biggest difference between now and previous generations is the existence of the internet. For all of the potential negatives, the internet allows individuals a platform to get information out to the public without having to depend on media companies to do it. President Trumps tweets, for good or bad, are an example of this. The medias influence on culture is slipping and will continue to drop. There are & will continue to be new influencers, but those can be called out fairly quickly if they become biased or corrupt. The internet can be used to balance those with disingenuous agendas. Heck, look at the formation of this forum as a great example of the biased & controlling being left out in the cold.
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Post by MDDad on Aug 18, 2019 11:21:50 GMT -8
i believe the biggest difference between now and previous generations is the existence of the internet. In my mind, the biggest difference between this generation and ours was that we always had the feeling of "shit, if I don't get my act together make a success of myself, I'm not going to get anywhere." Much of today's generation doesn't have that same fear/motivation/drive.
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Post by slk230 on Aug 18, 2019 11:46:18 GMT -8
"Politicians and the media reflect who we are. We elect and consume both, and they adapt to OUR tastes, or they wouldn't exist...assuming you believe in the notion of demand and supply." We don't really elect politicians we elect the lies they spew. It is only after the election we find out what really got stuck with. The cable news stations are a joke as they are mostly the propaganda arm (as is the public school system) of the left. Today's news is mostly dogma.
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Post by davidsf on Aug 18, 2019 12:18:15 GMT -8
Adam Carolla testified before Congress on this sort of thing (as did Ben Shapiro, immediately before him). Carolla spends too much time with his CV, but about 1:35 he starts talking about what we’ve done to our children...
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Post by RSM789 on Aug 18, 2019 13:15:25 GMT -8
i believe the biggest difference between now and previous generations is the existence of the internet. In my mind, the biggest difference between this generation and ours was that we always had the feeling of "shit, if I don't get my act together make a success of myself, I'm not going to get anywhere." Much of today's generation doesn't have that same fear/motivation/drive. I agree, the difference I was talking about was the availability of information and an outlet for ones voice. I tend to send a Letter to the Register about 4 or 5 times a year. Prior to their sale, the Registers libertarian-based editorial board printed about 80% of my letters. The current liberal-based editorial board prints none, they have a group of about 50 contributors that they only print from (including the Wabashian Ed Pyle). This shutting down of my voice would bother me if I didn't have an outlet like this forum to vent & give my opinion.
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Post by ProfessorFate on Aug 18, 2019 13:48:55 GMT -8
Politicians and the media reflect who we are. We elect and consume both, and they adapt to OUR tastes, or they wouldn't exist...assuming you believe in the notion of demand and supply. I want to think this movement away from being classy began to change back in the 60's with the hippie movement. There was something very appealing about that "mind expanding" era, and all that came with it. Some of it was very necessary - namely civil rights. Some of it was very damaging that appealed to our id - namely the loosening of our mores regarding sex. The Rat Pack had influences throughout for a very long time. It seemed there were piano lounges pretty much everywhere. I remember nearly every bowling alley having that type of bar. Going out to dinner meant you dressed up, opened the door for ladies, etc. There's something very appealing about class and romance that I think guys our age can impart on those we can influence. My all time favorite TV moment, brought to us by my favorite Rat Pack member Dean Martin. Here's Guy Marks:
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Post by Bick on Aug 18, 2019 13:50:09 GMT -8
"Politicians and the media reflect who we are. We elect and consume both, and they adapt to OUR tastes, or they wouldn't exist...assuming you believe in the notion of demand and supply." We don't really elect politicians we elect the lies they spew. It is only after the election we find out what really got stuck with. The cable news stations are a joke as they are mostly the propaganda arm (as is the public school system) of the left. Today's news is mostly dogma. Like any other business, they're supplying what's being demanded by their customers. When the stop supplying what you want, you'll go elsewhere. I'm guessing some of us used to watch CNN, CBS, NBC, ABC without much regard in the early going. But as they began appealing to a different set of values, most of us turned the channel. Remember, Jerry Springer used to be popular until they jumped the shark in its quest for supplying the outrageous, and completely lost credibility. CNN in its quest for supplying what seems to be an endless demand for anti-GOP vitriol is about at the end of their rope as well, if you believe the ratings posted here on occasion. Point is, I disagree that the media is doing anything more than supplying what's being demanded. They know better than anyone how easy it is to change the channel.
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Post by Bick on Aug 18, 2019 17:55:15 GMT -8
i believe the biggest difference between now and previous generations is the existence of the internet. In my mind, the biggest difference between this generation and ours was that we always had the feeling of "shit, if I don't get my act together make a success of myself, I'm not going to get anywhere." Much of today's generation doesn't have that same fear/motivation/drive. My dad was a doctor, and growing up, he made it abundantly clear in my early teens that I had to be prepared to move out of the house when I turned 18, AND pay for my own college education. So either study hard enough to get a scholly, or get my butt to work and save my $$. I chose B.
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Post by Credo on Aug 18, 2019 21:11:44 GMT -8
Didn't really follow those guys until I was nearly 50. There's something very cool about how those guys, Sinatra in particular, that really resonates with me now. I hear a Sinatra song, and I go right to thinking about a whiskey and a cigar sitting in an oversized chair at a dimly lit lounge in Vegas. I also think about how things must've been when he was going strong. Guys were guys, gals dressed up. It was classy. I think that's what I miss most about the way things are today. Very few people have any class. Clearly, as our president demonstrates on a daily basis, it's not about money. It's just a way of being that I really enjoyed.
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Post by Bick on Aug 18, 2019 21:28:04 GMT -8
Way too cool. I think the only thing I could do without from that era was all the smoking. Geez there was a bunch.
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